the BIG secret of handling people

As said by Dale carnegie in his famous book '' how to win friends and influence people''

First of all, this is not only about women..
this is in general about people.. and handling them..!!

here it is
'' GIVE SINCERE AND HONEST APPRECIATION ''

read it once more..!! it means alot.

every one craves to be appreciated..
that means every one has a deep need inside their mind to be appreciated..

this appreciation really means a sincere compliment..!!
every one loves a sincere compliment..
even u and me..

by this it does not mean flattery.. ofcourse.., flattery can get you nowhere..
it can make opposite effect..

but its not flattery i mean.. its a simple sincere compliment..
it should come from heart.. u give it without any need for in return..
its as simple as that..!!